How do you smile even when you don't want to ?

that person that said to stop being a Christian...IGNORE THEM! i kno what its like to know the guy u like isnt good for u, and not being able to get over them. i know how much it sucks! what i did was i just stopped focusing on guys... instead i started to focus on my relationship with Christ, and after a while, i saw who he really was and i just stopped liking him! its a long hard process, but it is SOOO worth it to feel that much more free. also, being Christian too, i know what it is lik to feel guilty. trust me on this one too... just stop doing what makes u feel guilty! i know what ur thinking... "i cant just stop...its not that simple!" well, i understand. whether it be because u have a reputation to uphold or because it is such an old habit, just ask God to give u the strength to stop. yes i also understand that alot of things we are called to do as Christians reep no benefits in this life and may even make our lives worse, it is so worth it for me just to know that someday God will look me in the eye and say "well done, my good and faithful servant."